Thanks for writing this! Really needed it - just turned 28 and me and all my similarly-aged friends are going through the same existential quarter-life questions: how to balance wanting to do something 'meaningful' with the reality of paying the bills, the fear of pursuing our passion vs the fear of regret if we don't - and the feeling that we are surrounded by people who seem to have their shit together effortlessly (and even if they tell you they don't).
As you know I very much felt every word of this - the questions included! - and appreciate your detailed thoughts in response Zsofi. Much to ponder from all this - thank you!!
This post really resonated with me—especially the part about 'Who We Are vs. The Tasks We Actually Enjoy.' It’s something I’ve seen play out in my own career journey. For example, I once thought I wanted to be a counselor because it felt like the perfect fit for my values and interests. But I didn’t really stop to consider whether I’d actually enjoy the day-to-day tasks that come with that role. Fortunately, it didn’t work out—and honestly, that turned out to be the best thing that could’ve happened!
Your insights reminded me of Dr. Grace Lordan’s book “Think Big”, where she emphasizes focusing on the activities that excite us rather than just chasing a shiny lifestyle. I love her advice about imagining your future self and prioritizing tasks that make you enjoy or energize you.
Thanks for sharing this—it’s comforting to know I’m not the only one who’s had to recalibrate my career compass!
Thanks for writing this! Really needed it - just turned 28 and me and all my similarly-aged friends are going through the same existential quarter-life questions: how to balance wanting to do something 'meaningful' with the reality of paying the bills, the fear of pursuing our passion vs the fear of regret if we don't - and the feeling that we are surrounded by people who seem to have their shit together effortlessly (and even if they tell you they don't).
loved the meticulous approach to questions + i’m fascinated that people trust us enough to ask advice from us🥹
As you know I very much felt every word of this - the questions included! - and appreciate your detailed thoughts in response Zsofi. Much to ponder from all this - thank you!!
Thanks so much Lauren, glad it resonated. Your post on the topic also gave a lot of food for thought!
Thank you! 😊
And ps thank you for including me in follow up reccs! 💖
why have i fooled myself into thinking i was the only discontent 29yo feeling like a lazy fraud out here? this is refreshing. big thanks, creators
thank you! we're so glad that this issue has resonated with so many people. sending love and support from fellow lazies! <3
This post really resonated with me—especially the part about 'Who We Are vs. The Tasks We Actually Enjoy.' It’s something I’ve seen play out in my own career journey. For example, I once thought I wanted to be a counselor because it felt like the perfect fit for my values and interests. But I didn’t really stop to consider whether I’d actually enjoy the day-to-day tasks that come with that role. Fortunately, it didn’t work out—and honestly, that turned out to be the best thing that could’ve happened!
Your insights reminded me of Dr. Grace Lordan’s book “Think Big”, where she emphasizes focusing on the activities that excite us rather than just chasing a shiny lifestyle. I love her advice about imagining your future self and prioritizing tasks that make you enjoy or energize you.
Thanks for sharing this—it’s comforting to know I’m not the only one who’s had to recalibrate my career compass!
Thanks so much Matthew, glad it resonated. Will check out Dr Grace Lordan's book, sounds relevant!
loveeee this
Thank you!